The daughter likes me but she doesn't really see me as her dads girlfriend. Anyway, she is always sitting in his lap and is always cuddling with him in our bed. It's really creeping me out but I don't want to bring it up. She's a very pretty young girl and should be out with her friends. But she's always with her dad …
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The sight of my daughter and my husband naked on my very bed sickened me. I still get nauseated at the sheer thought of the spectacle. It was more ugly than shocking.Estimated Reading Time: 6 mins
Her dad is extremely sick. You are the same age as his daughter. You are around them enough to be like a daughter and he has daughters. I wouldn't want this to be my husband. If you say anything, you WILL be verbally abused. Rumors will fly. You WILL lose this friend and possibly tear her family apart. This will affect you in your community.
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A man is trying to be a good and very caring father and shows his affection and care via showering together with HIS DAUGHTER. It is completely appropriate in this age. Stop forcing your stereotypical, pervert and negative thoughts over such innocent and kind act from a …
My Dad sexually abused me when I was a child. There were many times when he would kiss my neck. I remember one time he drugged me, kissed my neck, performed oral sex on me, bent me over the bed, tied my hands behind my back, inserted a vibrator into my butt, video taped it, and told me he was going to make a lot of money and I wasn't going to get any of it.
Would you say this same perverse crap if it was a mother in the shower with her son? Maybe your perspective is a little blurred from media. And so what, he's jist helping his daughter out and if he can squeeze in a quick shower too then even better. Tell him you prefer your friend, his daughter not be made aware of what happened and would appreciate it that his wife also not know about your inexcusable actions with an attempt to go back to the way it was before. Or just standing outside in the bathroom washing him? Sounds to me you're the creep, thinking that simply because a father helps his five year old shower -which is not at all uncommon and actually advised by all professional caregivers and pediatricians for safety- he must automatically be a pervert. Jillian opinions shared on Sexual Health topic. What the bible says about risk taking. Wowie Xper 6. I like your update. And you shall not come on to him. I hear you they have history but she is 35 years old isn't she? It's OK if you did and what you accomplish by opening your mouth? I believe she listened to him because he had verbally and physically abused her for over thirteen years and that messed her up in the head. Honeybaby Xper 3. I doubt that. It is none of your business what comes his way from the event. I have no problem with you having sex with the guy even though I don't condone that type of thing I just really disagree with you telling, because if you hadn't everyone would be happy. Dear girl, I don't know how to help you in this. I am going to go to the doctor to try and get anxiety medication because I'm concerned about the chest pain I've been experiencing. No, that's fine. But yes her dad. She's had a boyfriend in the past but never really spent time with him. At the very least, let him know the next time you are alone that what happened was unacceptable and cannot happen again. Why does he have to stand inside with her? Re: My dad molested me when I was a kid by struggling » Sat Jun 30, am I tried letting the subject go but I've realized I can't talk to my family about anything. Re: My dad molested me when I was a kid by whybother » Tue Jun 26, am struggling Welcome to the forums, If you family won't believe you, stop telling them. You should've just kept your mouth closed, sometimes its better not knowing and I'm pretty sure the wife would have rather not known. Let's face it. If so, talk to him about that. I mean like really cuddle. That's somewhat normal for 15 year olds to hug their dad. By making a huge deal out of it and suddenly forbidding the girl to shower with her dad, her parents would only be teaching her that naked body is something to be ashamed of. Kayla69 What happened? Dude, it's her father. The word you seek is "incestuous". Okay this isn't some sick fantasy I had or anything. But you can't. Well like you said on previous comments, you didn't do it with your parents. The emotional dependence will fade on it's own. You climb into his bed when he is with his SO to cuddle with him? She refuses to believe this and continues to refuse to lock the doors to our house. His great great grandma's are still alive lol. Bad girl. I wouldn't want this to be my husband. As long as you don't just say "You're a slut" I wouldn't put an honest answer down. MrOwl Xper 3. He's wearing swimming shorts, she's still only 5 years old. Is it weird that a dad still cuddles with his 15 year old daughter? But she has a grandma and great grandma and her dads girlfriend that can do it. I told my mom what my dad gives head like and she cried and said he won't come back but now she's in denial again. She's still denying it. I had three daughters and other than changing diapers, bath time was with mommy. That's because its not helpful sometimes. I still find it disturbing
She's had a boyfriend in the past but never really spent time with him. Maybe I'm just selfish but I think it's time for her to break away from him. That's why I don't want to bring it up. They seem right on that line to me. The only thing they don't so is shower together. Like I said, I've just never seen two people so close that aren't in that way. I dunno. It could be nothing suspect. I don't think I'd worry until you find that you have a reason to. But they cuddle like lovers would, not parent and child. Not sexual bit they're right on that line. Like how far did it go though? My boyfriend and his daughter really cuddle like two adults. Nothing really sexual but very intimate. Sorry but that's pretty gross. He better not be doing that with is daughter or he's going to prison. I can see how you would think it was gross but we were in love with each other at the time, I know it was wrong. It just strikes me as the next step in your boyfriend and his daughter's relationship especially if you were no around. She seems to have taken the place of a wife for him and for her he is almost like a first boyfriend at least emotionally. Might lead to nothing if they dont sleep in the same bed and she finds a boyfriend. There are boundaries that are there for a reason and they are on the line from what you describe. I mean like really cuddle. In our bed, she would have her head in his chest and arms wrapped around each other. I just don't think parent and child should be cuddling like that. So I've been seeing my boyfriend for a year now and he's much older than me. He had his daughter when he was 15 himself and the mother wanted nothing to do with her or him, So it's just been him and her for a long time until I came along. Said he didn't want to date because he wanted to give his baby all of his time. I think they've gotten too close because every time I visited and now that I'm living with them, they're always very close to each other. The daughter likes me but she doesn't really see me as her dads girlfriend. Anyway, she is always sitting in his lap and is always cuddling with him in our bed. It's really creeping me out but I don't want to bring it up. She's a very pretty young girl and should be out with her friends. But she's always with her dad by choice. He never asks her to do all this stuff but he doesn't tell her no either. Do you think something very wrong is going on between them? Or am I just looking at this wrong? Share Facebook. Is it weird that a dad still cuddles with his 15 year old daughter? Add Opinion. Dallsimo Xper 7. My stepdaughter insists on cuddling from time to time. Can be her and me, her and mom, her mon and me like last night I was in the living room reading, girlfriend came in while taking off her shirt and her daughter came out of her room in bra and panties So we gave ourselves a family hug which got me rockhard. Then girlfriend and her daughter went to sit at the piano. They played together while having just a bra and panties So I pretended to go look for something, sat down and took pictures! They should be close. Not the distant type of relationships we have now where hugs are rare and kids avoid time with family. Not to worry she'll meet a boy she likes and dad will fade to the background. As he's been her primary carer, obviously she's still young and extremely emotionally dependent on him. He's been there all her life, just the two of them, and of course they're very close. They're probably even closer now that he has a girlfriend because even teenagers get separation anxiety when suddenly their father's time isn't just for them anymore. If you're concerned, bring it up to him but I think that you should be prepared to be hurting and offending him if you do so. LaVilaine Explorer. I think that we live in a society that is unused to men showing affection for their children.
He can stand in the bathroom with her but doesn't need to be in the bath tub or shower spending quality time. But there isn't anything wrong with it. ZenithDawn Xper 6. Irishtexan Xper 3. So we gave ourselves a family hug which got me rockhard. But do you think I should talk to my friend and just stay away from her family? But therapy is a different story. Bricealan Explorer. Yes I agree. Vacuum-Rats Xper 5. And no I'm not her mother and am not trying to take the place of her mother, but she needs a good role model in her life and one that makes her dad happy and her. Whats curious is how you even know what they do in the bathroom. No, that's fine. But they cuddle like lovers would, not parent and child. She needs good influences in her life. I don't know what to do about this. Let's face it. You really only have 2 options. She refuses to believe this and continues to refuse to lock the doors to our house. Also it's a bonding experience and often helps kids feel more safe in the bath- often kids are worried about getting water in their eyes and stuff like that. That her body isn't a private thing in the shower? Add Opinion. Just remember this. But its not just a quick in and out wash her and get out. She has a mom they aren't together anymore. She's still denying it. It's nothing wrong? I'm fine with sucking it up until I move but fear that how my dad knows I came out and no one believes me will tell my dad he can do it and get away with it again. She's probably only had her dad her entire life and so she's become really attached to him. Dad may just be doing a good job raising his daughter, with no ill intent towards his daughter whatever. I think it's hot when younger girls like banging older guys. Why does everyone think he is gonna want me again? I'm not saying you should be in the shower with her I'm just saying at that age she still needs to be monitored. Yes No. I just thought it was inappropriate maybe cuz I'm not use to it? When he should be educating her on how to bathe and that showeres are for one person until she gets older. I feel the same way as you. Just make sure you are doing things for the right reason, and taking responsibility of what you have done. It's just awkward I guess. Add Opinion. Paedophiles can be any gender. The human body is beautiful, and it's natural, and nothing to be hidden or ashamed of. I know we all run off instinct but you chose to ignore your conscious in regards to this situation. You should have backed off the family if you couldn't deal with it but instead, you just had to try to have it all. Dom Xper 3. We like to look at child development in years, but it's not that easy.
Girl I really gotta say this, you did what you should. Sometimes there's no right decision to something, but you've done something that is true to yourself and for the right reasons. Hope things can work out. For the moment stay away from the dad. I am that man dannydavies gmail. I also agree with the first comment: seek counseling. Your counselor can help you figure out what to do next, when you're ready to deal with it. I think I will tell her but I'll talk to him first. I'm not really concerned about what will happen to me. I just want to do the right thing now even if I lose my friend and the love of her family. Thank you very much for your answer. I hear you they have history but she is 35 years old isn't she? I must not be understanding this correctly.. Because he wanted you the first time. He'll turn this into a routine thing if you let him. Well 3 kids, and yea he does. I'm just so confused and I fell wrong but I'm hurting my friend no matter what I do. Well thank you for saying what I already feel like. I don't need to be told this, I need advice on how to handle it. Already getting the counseling and I get the "no words" part. I felt horrible but it doesn't fix anything I did. But do you think I should talk to my friend and just stay away from her family? I would put some distance between you and the family, until you can understand exactly what happened. I know we all run off instinct but you chose to ignore your conscious in regards to this situation. Which, I'm not saying is wrong, nor will I judge you and call you names--because we've all ignored out conscious at one point or another. Just tell your friend you need some space, you're busy with work or school or something. Talking about this now, will only result in a massive melt down. I mean he was really into it and it turned me on so much. He taught me a couple new things. I doubt that. Well I bet he gives you a call sometime. I don't really know how much he actually liked it but I do know that I was his first black girl he's white. Well that's only if he hasn't cheated before. But the point isn't about the sex. The plot thickens. Just don't say you're missing your monthly next:. I was raised by my dad most my life I remember when I figured out I was having sex. That was the only sex talk we had, I think the rest is just learned best through trial and error. I know it's bad but you can't say you haven't done something you regret. The mistake and lesson should be learned by both me and him. I got that I can't have a relationship with them. There really isn't much of a lesson. I know I gave into something I shouldn't have. I'm trying to do the right thing now. If he is willing to cheat on his wife and hurt his daughter then I think I should be honest and then step out of their lives. I don't care how I'm looked at at the end, I just want to make one right decision here. See that's advice! As long as you don't just say "You're a slut" I wouldn't put an honest answer down. But you were asking how to fix this and in all honesty, this is something that can't be fixed. You really only have 2 options.